"Stage 20"
Today is my 30th Birthday!!! I can't help but to sit and reflect on the past ten years in my, "Stage 20's."
When I was a teenager my sister Rebecca would excuse away all of my short comings by what
"stage of life" I was in at the time. Around that time we began to include in our Birthday cards to one another what number "stage" we were celebrating. Since then it has stuck and I almost think of my age as what "stage" of life I am in. So, for the last 10 years I have been in, "Stage 20's" and I felt the need to journal/blog a few of the highlights from each "stage". As I have set and reflected on each year I honestly can't remember very much. (oh no! my mind is already slipping:/) I can recall a few things but most of all I know that, goodness and mercy have followed me.
"stage of life" I was in at the time. Around that time we began to include in our Birthday cards to one another what number "stage" we were celebrating. Since then it has stuck and I almost think of my age as what "stage" of life I am in. So, for the last 10 years I have been in, "Stage 20's" and I felt the need to journal/blog a few of the highlights from each "stage". As I have set and reflected on each year I honestly can't remember very much. (oh no! my mind is already slipping:/) I can recall a few things but most of all I know that, goodness and mercy have followed me.
As you read this you will notice the words I and we. I promise that when I say, "we" that I do not have a split personality. I'm referring to the other half of me, my side kick, soul mate, life companion, my prince, bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh, my husband, Jason Scott Wheeler. I can't really tell where he starts and I begin. I don't know life without him. Because of him I have a life because I am his helpmate. The things I will write about are because Jason has followed God's plan for our lives. The past ten years are just a few foot steps in me following my husband as he follows the Lord.
Stage 20:
We celebrated our first wedding anniversary. (yes! I got married in "stage 19" lol) We lived in the cutest, tiniest cottage style house in Fountain City, Tenseness. Jason was a Jr. in Bible College. I was a teacher at the Early Childhood Center at Central Baptist Church in Fountain City. We traveled home to Nicholasville, KY every weekend to serve at our home church, Tabernacle Baptist Church. We ran the bus and vans to pick up kids and Jason taught the Jr. Church. The Lord called us to Hickory Valley Baptist Church later that year and I became a youth pastor's wife. I became an aunt for the third time:)
Olivia Faith Hearn is born!
5516 N. Broadway Knoxville TN
one of our first trips with the teen of HVBC
We took them to Island City, KY
Early Childhood Center 3yr old class
Stage 21:
My life was busy with work, church, teen activities and helping Jason study for his Greek 4 classes. Jason graduated in the spring. That fall I quit working for the daycare, went back to college myself and became the nanny for my beloved Hindu Family the Venkatesh's. HVBC bought us a new to us car. (What a blessing) I also became an aunt for the fourth time to Jason's nephew Connor Ray and for the fifth time to a little girl who would later call me, aunt Hauney Leeler:)
only half pretending to joke him (long story)
Vikram and Divia Venkatesh
My last day at the Daycare
Stage 22:
I enjoyed going to college. I picked up Divia and Vikram from school everyday and was with them until bed time. I learned a lot about the Hindu cutler and fell in love with their food. I often called myself a part time missionary to India. (I'm still praying for their salvation) We took a group of teens on a Missions trip to Montana for a week. We loved it and would love to go back there one day. Such a beautiful place with such a need of churches. I also almost drowned in 3ft deep water on that trip. (yes it can happen)
Later that year I learned that God's grace is sufficient in a very personal way when my sweet Memaw went home to be with the Lord.
my prince rescuing me
Teen trip to Middle Tennessee Baptist Church
Helping with the VBS in Montana
I love that me and Papa are making the same face;)
Stage23:
I was very happy to finish college and have all my family come and stay with us in our tiny house for my graduation!!! The Lord started working in Jason's heart to come back to KY to pastor a church. We began to pray where that church might be. That summer we had a record 70 teen come to church on a Wednesday night! We were able to see many of them saved and grow in the Lord. We also ran a bus route and I got to work with the kids music while we were at HVBC. Jason's uncle Jim went home to be with Jesus that year and around that same time the Lord confirmed in our hearts it was time to say goodbye to HVBC and move back to KY to start a church in Lancaster KY.
Graduation 2006
Stage 24:
We moved back to KY and I became a Pastor's wife. I was super excited to see our church quickly grow from 0 to 40 in just a few months. I loved being close to my family, especially to be at the hospital with my sisters when I became and aunt for the sixth and seventh time:) I taught the K-3 class that spring at Tabernacle Christian Academy. That September Jason was ordained and we bought our First House on Kemper Lane in Lancaster KY!
The Wheeler family at Jason's ordination
* sorry to say there is only one pictures available for this stage because apparently in this stage I never developed any pictures or they are stuck on some broken phone or computer:/
Stage 25:
We got a puppy and named it Cotton, we still have her and if anyone wants a crazy dog call me. Our whole family took a trip to Walker Town North Carolina to the Sword Conference. I became an aunt for the eighth time:)
Eden is born
Baby Cotton
Stage 26:
Our church chartered that January and became self supporting. We survived "the ice storm of 09". We went with out electricity for 14 days! (if you are a close friend of mine I'll show you a video that we made in our absolute boredom during those two weeks;)
I worked for about half a minute at a Dr. office in Nicholasville but it wasn't a job that I was too crazy about so needless to say when my dad called and asked if I wanted to return to TCA and teach K-4 I jumped on it. Some where in there I took our Jr. kids to camp. That fall I became an Independent Beauty Consultant with Mary Kay cosmetics and yes I am still working on getting that pink caddy.
The BFFs
Some of my K-4 class
Stage 27:
Trips, I took several trips. Couples retreat, Ladies retreat, trips to see my sister Leah and her family in Mississippi and I was my mom's taxi driver on a couple of trips. My sisters became more precious to me as my Sister Rebecca had some serious health problems. I'm so thankful we were all able to come together and help during her recovery.
Sarah B. my partner in crime
L Ray
Ladies Retreat
Couple's Retreat
Stage 28:
My hair went extremely blond I took a trip to Dallas with my Mary Kay friends. Our church bought a fixer upper building and I enjoyed helping fixing it up and watching it shape up into the beautiful building it is today. We are so thankful for it and we are looking forward to out growing it and getting another building:)
Giving a Devotion at a baby shower
Dallas TX
Stage 29:
The year of stretching my faith. We claimed by faith 2012 to be the year God would give us a baby. We enrolled in foster care classes and were approved. We were very excited to celebrate out 10th anniversary. I went to the Dr. and they found a lump through much prayer and faith God removed it. Had one prayer after the other answered. Met the cutest baby girl I have ever seen and by the Unseen Hand of the Lord she became our foster daughter. She has moved into out hearts and we are looking forward to what the Lord has in store for us in "stage 30".
"STAGE 30" HERE I COME!!!
"Lord please help me to be the person you have saved and called me to be. I want to study your Word so that I can know you better. Let me be a witness and a light to this world. Help me to love, support and pray for my husband more. Give me the faith to trust you in the situation with baby girl. Help me to be a teacher of good things. Give me the strength and steadfastness to accomplish the desires you have placed on my heart. Stir my heart to pray more for my friends, family, church and the lost. Forgive me when I fail you lead me in the straight way. Help me to be a good steward of the things you have given me. Thank you for your goodness and mercy, for your blessings, for the past 10 wonderful years and most of all I thank you Jesus for saving my soul. In your Precious name I pray Amen."